A concerned grandmother expressed her worries about her grandchildren, ages 10 and 14, not having seen a dentist since before Covid. Despite their parents having excellent teeth, she is concerned about the children’s dental health. She has offered to take them to the dentist herself, but their mother has declined. The grandmother is unsure whether to continue pushing the issue or stay silent.
In response, the advice columnist recommends making one last direct ask to the daughter about taking the children to the dentist, expressing major concerns and offering help if needed. The columnist emphasizes the importance of regular dental checkups for children, as recommended by the American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry, and the benefits of seeing a professional to assess the children’s specific needs. It is suggested to leverage the excellent relationship with the daughter to discuss the issue further, but to respect her decision if she continues to resist. The columnist advises dropping the subject if the daughter remains reluctant, as ultimately, it is up to the parents to prioritize their children’s dental health.
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