A reader writes to Miss Manners seeking advice on navigating a friendship with someone who loves dining at expensive restaurants while they cannot afford to reciprocate. The reader feels uncomfortable allowing their friend to treat them to such outings, as they may never be able to reciprocate. Despite the friend’s awareness of the reader’s financial situation, they continue to insist on dining at upscale establishments rather than more affordable options. Miss Manners advises the reader to find other ways to reciprocate that do not involve expensive meals, such as giving thoughtful gifts or offering to help out in other ways. Reciprocation in friendship does not have to be monetary, but rather about showing care and appreciation for one another. Ultimately, the reader should not feel pressured to accompany their friend to expensive restaurants and can find other ways to show their appreciation for their friendship. You can find Miss Manners’ advice columns on her website, dearmissmanners.com, or through email or postal mail.
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