A man wrote to Annie Lane seeking advice on his marriage to his wife, Gertrude, who is treating him in a verbally abusive manner similar to how she described her ex-husband treating her. Despite his efforts to address the issue, her behavior continues, causing frustration. The man loves his wife and wants their marriage to last, but is unsure of what steps to take. Annie advises seeking marriage counseling, even if his wife refuses to attend. Verbal abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse, and both partners need to be willing to change their behavior and have mutual respect for each other. If the wife is defensive and unwilling to change, it may be difficult to save the marriage. The man must first respect himself enough to put a stop to the abusive behavior. Overall, communication and taking action to address the issue are essential for a healthy and long-lasting marriage. Annie’s advice emphasizes the importance of self-respect and seeking help when facing difficult situations in relationships.
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