A rural resident living in a remote area sought advice from advice columnist R. Eric Thomas on how to deal with a strained relationship with a neighbor after asking for help with a tax break application. The resident and her husband asked their neighbor to fill out an affidavit as an “uninterested third party” to confirm the use of their land for tax purposes. However, the neighbor refused, stating she couldn’t lie. The resident felt offended by the response and worried about the impact on their relationship.
Thomas advised the resident to find someone else to fill out the affidavit and then address the issue with the neighbor after the tax break application is settled. He suggested restating the facts to clear the air and potentially mend the strained relationship. While it may not be possible to change the neighbor’s mind, it is essential to address the situation and try to move forward.
The resident was encouraged to communicate their side of the story to the neighbor in a non-confrontational manner. Thomas recommended approaching the situation with understanding and empathy to avoid further conflict. By addressing the issue openly and honestly, the resident may be able to resolve the misunderstanding and repair the relationship with their neighbor.
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